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Dear Parent,
I see you. I know you probably didn't wake up this morning feeling like a rock star. You woke up because someone needed something. Or because your alarm went off before you were ready. Or because your brain was already running through the list before your eyes were even open. And you got up anyway. That's the first thing I want you to notice about yourself today. You got up.
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It happens every year.
Somewhere around the first week of August the back to school displays appear. The notebooks. The highlighters. The lunchboxes. And suddenly summer — which felt so expansive just a few weeks ago — starts to feel like it's slipping away. But here's what I want you to hear before you let the school year momentum take over completely: Summer isn't over yet. And it deserves to be soaked up all the way to the last drop. Not every connection-building activity needs a plan, a budget, or even leaving the house. Sometimes the most effective tools are the silliest ones.
This is the second post in our summer series on simple, low-cost ways to connect with your kids. Last week we covered playing catch. This week we're heading indoors for something a little more chaotic — and a lot more fun. It's called Pillow Launch. How to Play Pillow Launch The setup takes less than a minute: Step 1: Your child lies on their back on the floor, feet pointed up toward the ceiling. Step 2: You balance a pillow on top of their feet. Step 3: Back up a few steps, getting your arms ready to catch. Step 4: Count down together out loud — 5...4...3...2...1...LAUNCH! Step 5: Your child pushes the pillow off their feet, launching it toward your waiting arms. Step 6: Take turns. Once the basic version feels easy, try stacking two pillows for an extra challenge. That's the entire game. A couch pillow or two. A clear few feet of floor space. A few minutes of time. Somewhere between camps, activities, and the constant hum of a busy summer schedule, one of the simplest and most powerful connection tools available to parents quietly gets left behind.
Playing catch. No equipment to buy. No prep required. No screens involved. Just a ball, a few minutes, and two people standing across from each other. This post kicks off a short summer series on simple, low-cost ways to build connection with your kids — small moments that matter far more than we tend to realize. Why Authentic Parenting Matters More Than Being Happy All the Time (And How to Do It Right)6/9/2026 There is an unspoken pressure in parenting to always show up cheerful, patient, and in control. To be the calm in every storm. To smile through the hard days and keep things positive for the kids.
But what if that pressure is actually working against us? This is Week 2 of our six-week summer series inspired by The Danish Way of Parenting by Jessica Joelle Alexander and Iben Dissing Sandahl — a fascinating exploration of why Denmark consistently ranks among the happiest countries in the world. Last week we talked about the power of free play. This week we're diving into something a little more personal — authenticity. |
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