Why Reflecting on Summer Together Is One of the Most Connecting Things You Can Do With Your Kids8/25/2026 Before the school year swoops in and takes over completely — before the early mornings and the packed lunches and the permission slips find their way back into your life — I want to give you one simple, beautiful thing to do with your kids this week.
Reflect on your summer together. Not with a formal sit-down or a structured activity. Just a conversation. A few good questions. And the willingness to laugh, remember, and be present together one more time before the season changes. This is the final post in our August series on making the most of the end of summer and transitioning well into the school year. And I saved this one for last because I think it might be the most meaningful of all.
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Here's something I've noticed over years of parenting and coaching --
Kids who feel prepared feel confident. And kids who feel confident transition so much more smoothly into a new school year. Not perfectly prepared. Not over-scheduled or over-drilled. Just prepared enough to answer the quiet question every child carries into a new school year: "Do I know what I'm doing? Am I going to be okay?" The good news is that building that confidence doesn't require a lot of time or money. It just requires a little intentionality in the days before school begins. This is the second post in our August series on making the most of the end of summer and transitioning well into the school year. Last week we talked about slowing down and soaking up what's left of summer. This week we're getting practical. It happens every year.
Somewhere around the first week of August the back to school displays appear. The notebooks. The highlighters. The lunchboxes. And suddenly summer — which felt so expansive just a few weeks ago — starts to feel like it's slipping away. But here's what I want you to hear before you let the school year momentum take over completely: Summer isn't over yet. And it deserves to be soaked up all the way to the last drop. Not every connection-building activity needs a plan, a budget, or even leaving the house. Sometimes the most effective tools are the silliest ones.
This is the second post in our summer series on simple, low-cost ways to connect with your kids. Last week we covered playing catch. This week we're heading indoors for something a little more chaotic — and a lot more fun. It's called Pillow Launch. How to Play Pillow Launch The setup takes less than a minute: Step 1: Your child lies on their back on the floor, feet pointed up toward the ceiling. Step 2: You balance a pillow on top of their feet. Step 3: Back up a few steps, getting your arms ready to catch. Step 4: Count down together out loud — 5...4...3...2...1...LAUNCH! Step 5: Your child pushes the pillow off their feet, launching it toward your waiting arms. Step 6: Take turns. Once the basic version feels easy, try stacking two pillows for an extra challenge. That's the entire game. A couch pillow or two. A clear few feet of floor space. A few minutes of time. Somewhere between camps, activities, and the constant hum of a busy summer schedule, one of the simplest and most powerful connection tools available to parents quietly gets left behind.
Playing catch. No equipment to buy. No prep required. No screens involved. Just a ball, a few minutes, and two people standing across from each other. This post kicks off a short summer series on simple, low-cost ways to build connection with your kids — small moments that matter far more than we tend to realize. |
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