Simplify the Holidays with the Three Gift Rule

Thanksgiving is right around the corner, and with it comes the excitement of Black Friday shopping and finding the perfect gifts for our kids. While it can be tempting to take advantage of all the deals and fill our homes with the latest toys and gadgets, it’s important to consider how the influx of new stuff can impact our children—and ourselves.
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The thrill of a new toy is often short-lived, but the clutter it leaves behind can last much longer. When kids are surrounded by an excess of things, they can become overwhelmed, making it harder for them to focus, appreciate what they already have, or even engage in creative play. More stuff doesn’t necessarily lead to more happiness, and often, it’s the simple, meaningful moments that our kids remember most. If you haven’t tried the “Three Gift Rule,” maybe this is the year.

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It’s a simple, mindful approach to holiday gift-giving that helps bring balance back into the season. It’s an excellent way to focus on thoughtful, meaningful gifts without getting overwhelmed by the mountain of presents that can often take over our homes.
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• Gift 1: Something They Want - Something they have been wishing for, maybe off their list
• Gift 2: Something They Need - New clothes, shoes, hat, coat or maybe even matching pjs - something practical, or special like a new purse; sports equipment or art supplies—something that will make their day-to-day life a little better or easier
• ​Gift 3: Something To Read -  Look for books that match their interests, or a series they love
  
  

The Three Gift Rule helps us to be more intentional with our holiday shopping. It’s a great way to keep your home more organized and to help kids appreciate what they receive. Try to select items that truly bring joy and add value to your children’s lives. Let’s focus on quality over quantity and fostering a sense of gratitude during the holiday season. This approach also helps set clear expectations and can be a great way to stick to a holiday budget.
The Three Gift Rule is just a guideline, and it can be adjusted to fit your family’s needs and values. Some families add a fourth gift, like a “family experience” or “something to share” that everyone can enjoy together, such as a new board game or a family pass to the community pool. If you’re looking for a way to simplify your holiday season and focus on what truly matters, give the Three Gift Rule a try. It might just become a new favorite tradition in your family!